Friday, May 8, 2026

Travel from FL to VA 2026








Many of you already know that Gary takes me to Florida in late December to stay for the winter.   (Yes, I'm still a Snowbird.) Then he returns to VA to do taxes.  He comes for me in May. 

We travel from Harrisonburg, VA to Port St. Lucie, FL in one day.  Gary's sister, Betty Suter Wenger, gave us the key to success: "Start on the road at 4:00 a.m."

We stop only for gas and bathroom.  We have our food and drink in the car.  I drive an hour or two in the afternoon so Gary can take a nap.

We drive the 923 miles, usually getting here about 7:30 p.m.  This time we hit a traffic snarl at Roanoke that added about an hour to our usual time.  

Here are a few of the "adventures" we had along the way this spring:

McDonald's Scrub-a-Dub Cleaner

There was a man in McDonald's vigorously scrubbing plastic chairs.  He would clean the chair as one would normally, THEN he would turn the chair upside-down and, using a piece of steel wool, he would literally scrub and scrub on the aluminum legs.  Strange!

Statement on Society These Days?
We observed a new policy in McDonalds that surprised us.  You order and when you pick up your food, they give you a cup with your chosen drink.  When you go to the side where the drinks were, it was possible only to get ice and napkins.  There was a sign saying that people were coming with thermal cups from their car, getting a full cup, and leaving without purchasing a thing.  Sad to say, that seems to exemplify how our society is losing basic honesty.

Food on the Road
We've learned to take finger food in the car instead of stopping to eat.  Trying to eat a sandwich while driving is dangerous.  Our go-to foods for that are Lance crackers -  cheddar and cheese crackers and peanut butter.  The peanut butter ones are easy to eat because they're round.  You can put the whole cracker in your mouth, thus avoiding crumbs in the car.  The cheddar ones are square so you have to be rather un-mannerly to put the whole thing in your mouth -- but we do!


Navigating in Buc-ee's
The big phenomenon lately are the chain travel centers called Buc-ee's. They are huge, have pristine restrooms, and have up to 120 gas pumps and a huge store.  NO TRAILOR TRUCKS are allowed. They're known for their in-house barbecue counter where employees slice fresh Texas brisket for sandwiches - and it makes the place smell wonderful.

At this time, there are 62 Buc-ee's location in 12 different states, with Texas having the most stores - about 40 stores.

OK, you get the picture.....  well, we found a good parking spot near a door and went in.  After a pit stop, we met to go out.  We went out and our car was missing!!!   Huh????

I looked and realized that the entry we came in had striped chairs.... these were solid color.  We were in a daze by then but had sense to go back in and try again.  Whew, we found the entry with striped chairs and our car WAS there.

So much for our navigating skills in Buc-ee's!

Gu-ment Workers

It took a few minutes to decipher what we were seeing on this steep bank.  Sure enough, it was “government” workers often referred to as “gu - ment” workers.  


You know how it is with gu-ment workers - one to work and others to watch.



At the bottom of the hill were 2 more workers by the seeder truck.  They are both standing and watching also.





Conclusion

Gary Suter says, and I quote:
"I have resolved myself to the fact that I will spend the rest of my life driving on highways that are under construction."

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Kentucky Derby Party in FL

It has become the custom for our Bible study group to get together in person twice a year, which works well for everyone.  This year we had a Kentucky Derby Party.  

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Rita, our hostess, had done some shopping so the girls got busy.

We started out making these tame "church lady" hats.  I had been online and studied the Derby hats - they were BIG and WILD.  So..... we shifted gears.
Busy, busy bees. 
You know how gals are when they get going on a project.
Coming right along, Rita and MaryMay are finished.
Admiring each other's work.  Carol looks like she's ready.

Ah, ha, we are proud of our creations.
Meanwhile, back at the ranch, the guys did chat a bit and 
checked on the TV to be sure we didn't miss the race.
  Rita and Alan Etherington, our gracious hosts. 

Carol, MaryMay, Rita, Deborah, Pat

Pat's hubby, Rick Necklan, liked Pat's Derby hat, as did I!

The hat below was my favorite. 
Pat started out with a rather ho-hum conservative  hat. 
 A few minutes later, I looked across the table and simply burst out laughing.  As you can see below, Pat got into the spirit.

Rita, Alan, Carol, Lou, Rick, Pat, Gary, MaryMay, Deborah and Dave

 
Rita and Alan, thank you for your hospitality.

Oh, who won the Kentucky Derby?   Golden Tempo 
Try this link:
Hope this will let you see the historic finish.

Friday, May 1, 2026

Bible Study Via Zoom

In 2020, we were concerned about missing our Bible study during the Pandemic.  Our leader, Rita Etherington, figured out how to use Zoom. 
It worked so well that we have continued since 2020.

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2020 May
Gary brings me (MaryMay) from VA to FL in January.  He flies home and does taxes.  In the spring he flies down to rest and drives us back to VA.

2022 February
One reason this works well for our study, is that Gary can "be there" for all our lessons, even though he's in VA.

2021 June
When we're both in VA  for the summer, we can still participate.  Also, when Rita and Alan are up North for the summer, we can still have our lesson.
2023 May
Gloria Walker is active in the group and we kid her because she uses an Avatar..... I think it's so she won't have to do her hair! 

2025 January
 Ruthie and Paul Watkins joined us in the group.
2025 February

2026 January

2926 February

         
Thank you, Rita for your leadership.

Gary is in FL in January and May so that's the time for our "in person" parties!  (Read about our Derby Party on a later blog post.)

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

My Red Hat Days - Hotsie Totsies Part 3

When I first moved to Savanna Club in 2010, I wanted to join the large Red Hat group, the Hotsie Totsies.  But they had a limit of 100 members and there was no space for me.

In the meantime, I decided to join the little group, the Hattitudes, with 25 members. 

When there was an opening in the Hotsie Totsie's, I had gotten to know all the Hattitudes.  So, I decided to participate in them both!  

In a practical sense, I would get double use of my red and purple clothes!


Besides, it was a good excuse to shop!

It was surprising how my collection of Red Hats grew.  None of them were bought from a regular store.  The thrift shopping in the area of Port St. Lucie, FL is a fun and satisfying hobby.

The Hotsie Totsies had a week-long cruise and I decided to go with "the Lindas."  Above you can see the outfits all laid out ready to pack.
Elaine Simms, MaryMay Angelil, Linda Houlihan, and Linda Ricippo

Yes, there we were, the Hotsie Totsies cruising.
It was fun on the ship because we wore our Red Hat attire every day.  After a few days, people in the elevators started asking,  "What's going on?"  That was our chance to share our basic purpose:

The Red Hats is a frivolous attitude to growing older.

 The phrase, "Live, Love, Laugh" applies and its 
mission is to enrich the lives of women across the globe through fun and fellowship. 


One of my favorite "activities" is a Red Hat exchange.  You bring in some clothes, purses, or jewelry that you're not using.  We put them all out on tables and just go pick some things you would like.

The Hotsie Totsie's now meet in the evenings and I'm not crazy about driving in the dark.  Maybe I'll get brave next winter.

The meetings I enjoy most are ones where we have an activity AND  a meal.  We visit museums, parks, go to plays, and anything else people conjure up. 

In any event, I do enjoy the camaraderie of my Red Hat Sisters.



My Redhat Days - The Ladies Part 2

Note: Click on any photo for an enlargement.

Here are some shots of my dear Red Hat sisters.  What fun years we have had together.

   
Linda Houlihan, Linda Ricippo and I were thrift shopping friends. 
I would say,  "I'm going out with 'the Lindas' today!"

    
  
  
   

   
    
  
 
 

    
 

   
  
 
 
      

  
         


And then there was the "Emailer" of the group!